This is so common - your body and your mind feel exhausted, yet somewhere in the back of your mind, there is still a faint desire for intimacy. How can you want something yet feel too tired or even fearful of acting on it?
The answer lies between physical fatigue, emotional fatigue and lack of desire, which can be both mental and physical.
Why this is happening
The daily check list, stress and lack of quality down time, all take a toll on energy levels. But intimacy is not just about physical readiness; emotional and mental arousal play a big role. Sometimes, even when your body is tired, the need for closeness, affection and stress relief through intimacy remains strong.
3 ways to navigate this
Being present to your body’s needs while still honouring your desire for connection is key.
With small adjustments, you can enjoy intimacy without pushing yourself beyond your limits.