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You’ve read the recommended books, listened to all the podcasts, tried the tools, but it doesn’t last. You long to finally feel a real connection with your partner, but you aren’t sure which direction will take you to authentic and lasting change.
You’re ready to get curious and are open to doing things differently, but you don’t know how or where to start. You sooo want to feel sexually alive again, but that feels like a distant memory.
You feel like you have to constantly watch your words and walk on eggshells because you don’t want to hurt your partner’s feelings by speaking your truth and what you truly want is to re-connect and feel loved
You are so over arguments, feeling irritated and basically ‘what’s the use…. I just want a peaceful life….. Yet you know you love your partner and you know you are both capable of making it work
You want to feel like you can share anything together and it won’t end up in a big argument around who is right or wrong here!
You want to find some way to feel confident to initiate sex again, but it feels like a monumental hurdle to jump because… damn it hurts to be rejected!
After nearly 40 years with my husband, raising three children, and running businesses together, I realised we had put our intimacy on the back burner. I knew I wanted more, so I got curious about my own sexuality and what I needed, which led me on my journey to become a certified intimacy coach.
After 8 years of diving deeply into relationship dynamics, sexuality, and how trauma impacts connection, I’ve made it my mission to guide couple’s back to one another.
I help couples prioritise regular intimate time where they speak openly and honestly about their desires and fears. I help them remember that sensual intimacy is meant to feel light and not too serious!
Let’s meet on Zoom for a complimentary 30- minute Clarity call with your partner, where we can discuss what you really desire in your relationship, what blocks could be showing up and what working together could look like. I will use my 4Cs of Intimacy as a framework for your relationship transformation journey
When a relationship feels deeply uncomfortable, and you are struggling to find a way to have really honest conversations with each other, and you know you want to, this is a wonderful sign you are human, mature and might be ready for guided support
Relationships go through seasons just as in nature. Just because you do not feel happy and totally in love with each other constantly, this is wonderful information that this is OK to rest. There may also be some new pieces to add into your relationship to turn it into an honest thriving alive way of living together when the time feels right
Deep sensual intimacy is a choice between two humans. When it feels like what you have had has disappeared, it might be time to get curious about new ways of relating, new ways of seeing each other, different ways of opening yourselves up to the new, something you can lovingly experience together that feels exciting and life giving!
Follow along as I share my thoughts on intimacy, sex, relationships, monogamy, marriage and so much more
Read all postsThis question is a constant from my clients and I tell them they need to start by being willing to learn how to speak and listen to each other and get curious about what they truly think and feel. I also say it might take time but it is definitely possible if two people are willing to add in new behaviours and let the old ways, that are not working, drop away.
Learn moreIt might be helpful to check how much pleasure you, as a female-identified human, are bringing into your space with your male partner, as nourishment and aliveness are wonderful currency for a sustainable relationship
Learn moreMost of us have not been taught how to have pleasurable sexual experiences with each other, let alone speak confidently in detail about our needs. It is a bonus if it makes sense to both humans. Even if it feels uncomfortable and awkward, a couple can feel more deeply connected when they hear their partner voice their feelings openly.
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